Relationship Deep Dive

Relationship Deep Dives are a space to learn new relational skills, get support with conflict and repair, go through major transitions with the care of someone outside of the relationship and more. We will use a somatic approach to meeting your goals which means we will engage in embodied practices to help understand the patterns that feel unmovable and shine a light on unmet needs within the relationship. We will work together to identify the triggers that make relating difficult, we will create agreements for conflict that create more ease in the painful parts of your relationship and we will work to tend the places where harm has occurred between you. I will support you each individually and while holding the relationship with lots of care.

Romantic relationships are often the stage in which we play out all of our historic relational trauma. It is a common place to get lost in projections and confusion; past and present gets wildly entangled. I believe every relationship needs outside support and witness at some point. Additionally, it takes a lot of intentional time and effort for relationships to meet the needs of everyone involved. I offer the support necessary to navigate the communication, negotiation and understanding necessary for relationships and the individuals in them to thrive.

I work with folks along the whole spectrum of monogamous to polyamorous and believe that relationships can feel nourishing in any configuration. I primarily work with the LGBTQIA+ community, but see people of any and all sexual identity and gender experience. I also work with triads or polycules.

Deep Dives are four months long and tailored to meet you and your needs exactly where you are. During this Deep Dive we commit to meeting weekly and to staying present with your goals. You also get access to a weekly facilitated drop in space for somatic practice.

Deep Dives Include:
+Sixteen somatic coaching coaching sessions tailored to you and your relationship goals. $200 - $255 per session
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Twenty-four community practice sessions. $15 - $19 per person per session
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Two month post Deep Dive integration plan.

Total Cost: $4000 - $5000
**We will decide together where you best fit on this sliding scale.

“Working with Scarlet has been one of the most life changing experiences of my life.  As someone who has worked extensively with all different kinds of mental health practitioners for the past 20 years, She ranks among the very best.  Scarlet has skill, gift, and power as I have never seen and uses them all so well and responsibly in some big fucking cauldron with a gnarly wooden stirring stick.” - Client in relationship Coaching